In the world of internet sex hookups, you can always find people who are abundantly clear in their profiles that they want to get naked fast and right to the hot fucking. But then there are the hundreds of other profiles that are either very sparse and open to interpretation or paint a picture of someone who is chaste and averse to any kind of nudity with another human. And you often find yourself yearning for these other people instead of the common sluts. What to do? Well, you can always just ask them if they actually are into sex hookups. The worst they can say is no; the best they can say is they will be right over!
People are often afraid of rattling feathers on some of these online sites that cater to sex hookups. They do not want to be pushy or too forthright, trying to dance around the delicate sexual issues even while they are horny as hell. But keeping quiet is not going to help either of you get into bed. Sometimes other people are just very discreet and low key, and they do not want their sexual yearnings broadcast for everyone on the internet to see. Only if you are bold enough to question them will you find that out, though.
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Many of us have been raised in a prim and proper manner to believe that it is never all right to simply just have sex with someone for the sake of the sex itself. We feel that we must try to make a relationship with them, that we must find their good qualities, and that we must try to see how we can become compatible with them. All we are really doing here is trying to assuage our guilt at having sex with someone that we are not currently in a relationship with, but even knowing that, we still keep at it regardless.