Does it seem sometimes with dating that men want to jump right into sexual subjects and having sex really quickly in order to figure out if they’re compatible with a woman sexually? Does it seem equally true that women seem to want to figure out if they’re compatible with a man in every way besides sex before having sex hookups? It does seem that way because in most cases it probably is that way.
Dating isn’t easy for anyone, but it sometimes seems especially difficult for people of opposite genders simply because they usually communicate completely differently so there can be a lot of misunderstandings. Neither really understands the way the other thinks, so it makes it more difficult for each to understand the thought processes of the other. Some of the dating websites are offering more article and quizzes, to help people identify better relationship matches for themselves by matching personality types and explaining some of what’s going on in each gender’s heads.
Women are often concerned that there is still a double standard regarding sex, and usually they’re correct. There is still a double standard where men are able to have sex with anyone, anywhere and anytime they want to, even if it’s the first date. Women, however, are often judged rather harshly by society, even in this day and age. A woman that jumps into bed too quickly is still often considered a slut, and some men will still dump a woman that they feel has given in too quickly. This makes it kind of difficult for women to know what to do and how long they should make the guy wait. It also makes it rather difficult for women to be able to enjoy their sexuality and their sex lives. Who wants to sleep with a guy if he’s going to dump her the next day? Even worse is that women have to wonder if this guy is the gift that keeps on giving; giving STDs, giving orders, giving rules and giving the stalking laws a run for their money. Men have to fear the exact same things with new female partners, but men usually seem much more laid back about the whole thing. Hopefully we’ll learn to understand each other a little better to make dating somewhat easier.