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Does it seem sometimes with dating that men want to jump right into sexual subjects and having sex really quickly in order to figure out if they’re compatible with a woman sexually? Does it seem equally true that women seem to want to figure out if they’re compatible with a man in every way besides sex before having sex hookups? It does seem that way because in most cases it probably is that way.

Dating isn’t easy for anyone, but it sometimes seems especially difficult for people of opposite genders simply because they usually communicate completely differently so there can be a lot of misunderstandings. Neither really understands the way the other thinks, so it makes it more difficult for each to understand the thought processes of the other. Some of the dating websites are offering more article and quizzes, to help people identify better relationship matches for themselves by matching personality types and explaining some of what’s going on in each gender’s heads.

Women are often concerned that there is still a double standard regarding sex, and usually they’re correct. There is still a double standard where men are able to have sex with anyone, anywhere and anytime they want to, even if it’s the first date. Women, however, are often judged rather harshly by society, even in this day and age. A woman that jumps into bed too quickly is still often considered a slut, and some men will still dump a woman that they feel has given in too quickly. This makes it kind of difficult for women to know what to do and how long they should make the guy wait. It also makes it rather difficult for women to be able to enjoy their sexuality and their sex lives. Who wants to sleep with a guy if he’s going to dump her the next day? Even worse is that women have to wonder if this guy is the gift that keeps on giving; giving STDs, giving orders, giving rules and giving the stalking laws a run for their money. Men have to fear the exact same things with new female partners, but men usually seem much more laid back about the whole thing. Hopefully we’ll learn to understand each other a little better to make dating somewhat easier.

There is simply no truth in advertising anymore. At the same time we are learning every bit of what we’d possibly want to know on any given subject by typing keywords into Google we are still romantic enough to put our usual good research aside and jump in head first to on line dating sites and expect our prince or princess to appear simply because we log on and fill our a requisite form. Most people are on line because they enjoy the anonymity of being on line, they enjoy being able to mentally role-play or at the very least masturbate in a chartroom, never thinking for a second that there is a real person like you out there wondering if they are just as real.

It takes an enormous leap of faith to even set-up a profile, let alone submit facts and details and then hope for a match. But what takes a Herculean effort is not lying about who you are and what you might be looking for in your potential date.

Like the most intoxicating drug, pretending to be who we are not is a game many men and women play, so much more so on line then anywhere else. Why not carry through with the fantasy when signing up for an online dating site? If one plays the odds, the possibility of any one person answering your personal ad are so remote that most likely you’ll never be called out for not being six foot four or sporting 36D-cup breasts.
The lure of being the porn star we wish we were is much more appealing then actually fessing-up to our very pedestrian tastes and above average looks.

But if one person is pretending on line, then everyone is. When does one person simply stop the madness? When do we finally break down and ignore all the television commercial showing happy couples who found love on their first date and admit that there will be fits and starts to any attempt at communication and that the fits and starts, the near misses we manage when searching on line personal ads are as important as the few true hits we manage?

And when will we all agree that telling the truth from the onset might just be better for everyone involved and maybe, in the end, get more of us laid a little more often.

A is a very handy letter.

I am going to start handing out adult dating and relationship advice based on letters. A is the best letter to start with. There are five key elements in a successful relationship that begin with A.

1. Acceptance

When people search hookups, they often do not wait to ensure that everything about their chosen partner is perfect. Indeed, you’d never find anyone if you did this – and it would be impossible to do anyways. Everyone is flawed, and some things can be very difficult to accept, especially if you discover them after you’ve gone a far ways down their path. Sometimes things that attract us to a partner in the first place are exactly what bother us later. Example: she has slept with 87 men in her lifetime. This kills you now. You are jealous and feel competitive – like you’re some virginal wimp in comparison with your 22, but man, weren’t you attracted to her in the first place because she was so sexual? If you want to truly build something healthy, you are going to have to fully embrace all her flaws.

2. Acknowledgment

Recognize the kind things your partner has done for you. The beginnings of relationships are characterized by displays of sympathy to one another, and this can be continued if you continue to acknowledge and return the good deeds your partner does for you.

3. Appetite

For Sex. For the mental. You need to make sure the fire for one another continues to be stoked. Do this by sharing and provoking and interacting in different ways on a constant basis. Once the appetite goes, everything is over.

4. Amusement

This goes with appetite – keep things fresh. Be adventurous together. You don’t like falling into the same old dreadful patterns when you’re alone, do you? So why do so in the company of a partner?

5. Assist

Men and women both want peace of mind. Security. To some degree. Help your partner. Be a support. It’s the whole team thing that makes for a lasting couple.

The hardest thing about searching hookups is finally going on that sex date and having to think of things to talk about. Nothing’s worse than an awkward silence, particularly when you simply want to rip a woman’s clothes off and you have to pretend you are somewhat interested in what she has to say. Okay, that’s cruel, to be fair, you probably are interested in what she has to say, it’s just that she’s super hot and it’s very distracting. Also – she probably could care less of what you have to say, but this is the dance you’ll both just have to do for the sake of….I don’t know….anticipation, politeness, “modesty”?

Here’s a few ideas for questions you can actually ask your adult friend that will produce answers you’ll probably actually find interesting.

1. Have you ever traveled around another country alone?

2. Are you into horror movies?

3. Wouldn’t it be cool to just quit your job and go live in Prague for a year?

4. Are your religious?

5. Does it annoy you when people making grammar and spelling mistakes when sending messages on online dating sites?

6. Do you cook? If so, what?

7. What’s your favorite book and why?

8. Name the best album of the year. And defend it?

9. Who was your first sexual crush?

10. Do you think humans are fundamentally evil or fundamentally good?

Yes, some of these questions are risky, but who cares? It’s better than being bored to death isn’t it?

Oh, fuck my life. Fuck your life. There are two hot-ass people breaking up in celebrity world. You are searching sex hookups, I know, but trust me, dude, you have no fucking chance of getting with the goddess that makes up one half of this duo. Stick with online dating.

Jay- Z and Beyonce are apparently about to start a trial separation. The reason? Here’s some random ‘insider’ to tell us about it:

“The biggest thing [they argue about] is about kids, [Jay-Z] wants them and Beyonce doesn’t. It’s all about her career, and she doesn’t want to slow down.”

Well, of course she doesn’t for fuck’s sake. She’s gorgeous. She’s got a killer voice. She can dance. She can’t act but she does look pretty, pretty on camera. What else? She seems to have a pretty good work ethic. Would Jay-z stop everything and get himself pregnant if he was the one who had to carry the baby inside his goddamn body?
I mean – you have an alien invader in your body for nine months?!!!! You can’t drink alcohol! ALCOHOL! You can’t even drink coffee! And I am sure lugging an alien creature in your womb is pretty fucking tiring. And then the thing comes out and it wants to suck milks from your tits.

So, in sum, dear Jay-z: stop being a prick! Or, maybe this is all made up. It probably is. Like any two hot people living in hot people land, you’re sick of fucking each other and realize you could be sex dating other gorgeous creatures right now. So it’s splitsville until you realize if lots of hot pussy and cock can make up for the deep romantic bond you two had.

But the media loves to be all sexist and shit so there spewing this baby crap and acting like Beyonce is somehow a failure for it. Well: FUCK YOU!