Honesty. That is what has long been called the best policy, and it will be true forever. Much too much has been written about bisexual men on the down low. The future for bisexual dating is one of increasing openness and a more complete understanding of this very real part of the sexual orientation spectrum.
There are quite a few online sites like BiCupid and BiCafe where bisexuals can meet each other in an environment where their orientation is not only known, but celebrated. For more politically-oriented bisexuals, myriad local organizations are cropping up where bi folks might organize together. From there, if love happens, all the better.
What is a bisexual man or bisexual woman to do when dating outside of the bi pool? Again, its that honesty thing, no matter how difficult that sounds. If you love to suck cock and you dig pussy too, it will only become more and more of a difficult thing to talk about after months of dating. Most of the time, if you arent telling someone that you are bisexual, simple omission is at work. Next time you go on a date with that someone who has piqued your interest, try following the natural course of your conversation. If you wind up discussing past relationships, take a chance and mention that same-sex or opposite-sex partner, whichever you think might be startling to your date. Remember, you neednt assume that your date is necessarily 100% gay or straight, either. You may have more in common than you think.
That said, people do have assumptions about bisexuality. Be sure that you are up on your safer sex practices and discuss these with your potential partner. When the person sees that all bisexuals arent out to have anonymous sex or to fuck anything that moves and can make responsible decisions, a bad stereotype will be laid to rest. Another stereotype is that bisexuals cant be monogamous. Like anyone else, some are and some arent. What is your relationship style preference?
It is better to talk about these things before falling into bed. If youve already done the wild thing, these conversations are still better done sooner than later. Knowing each other more fully in all ways will make for better relationship potential overall.